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2 December 2017 , 10:25 am .
It has been 669 days that my son been born , this is the story 1.
His mother ” Rachel Muriel “has planned and executed with assistance from her parent and others to give our son away 48 hours after my son was born .
Fact she lied to me about his date of birth , she only told me that he was born 24 hours later on 3 Feb 2016 , i run to hospital to see my son and his mother , on that time we where still ( I thought ) in relationship and looking forward to raise our son together .
She had a complete different plan behind my back for our son , once i got to the hospital , after seeing my son first time , was the happiest moment in my life , ask his mother how was she and helped to move from her bed first time after delivering our baby , then she told me , that he was born day before , I was bit suprised but didn’t want to make an issue with it , said to myself in that moment , important she is healthy and our son is , and thought that maybe she wanted to be alone , actually it was premeditated ,done in purpose not to get me present when our son was born , because I will have to be registered as a father in hospital file .
Stayed with her and our son , had a loving exchanges and was looking forward to see my son next day , remember she did not stop talking the whole night and expressing her affection for our son and I , I did the same and I did trust her with my heart and soul , I trusted her with my son life , that he will be with us next day and the rest our life , that we the real parent, will look after him with love , compassion and understanding , he is from her and me .
I love my son and I thought she had the same love for our son , as i do , furthermore she is a mother , she hold him inside her for 9 months , he felt her heart beat , everything he felt from her , a connection with her own baby , sadly she denied him that connection , that affection , the heart beat inside him , was denied and left alone with strangers , that have no connection whatsoever with her or me but more importantly him ” my son ” .
Next day she asked me to meet up with her parent for some talk at hospital , I didnt really wanted to meet them , especially her mother ( evil b***) a big mouth ignorant and materialistic to the bone , love money and above all cheat breakfast , lunch and dinner .
Anyway I respected the mother of my son that time and said OK to meet them , once I got to meet them , her mother started making a seen in front of her daughter in the hospital ( was planed to provoke me ) I didn’t react , left hospital and decided to wait in coffee shop , until they leave and I go back to see my son and his mother .
Because she told me , she will be discharged from the hospital on 5 Feb 2016 .
It is still the 4 Feb 2016 , so I waited outside , until was dark ,around 8 pm decided to go back to see my Son and his mother , to my shock of my life , she was discharged from the hospital late at night , which is not normal at all , I run ask the nurse where is she , they tell me , she was discharged .
Leave hospital start calling her , she switch off her phone , wanted to go to her parent house but remembered that her coward of father and b**of mother told me not to come to their house and if I do they will call the police .
I didn’t want to have more drama , kept calling her , until she answered her phone and that was maybe 1 am ,asked her what happened , where was my son and she became a complete stanger , as if we don’t have a baby at all between us .
I calm myself down and asked her not to do anything stupid , because it is our son and he is not a private property to her alone . still have my trust on her , because it did not cross my mind , that a mother can give her baby away to strangers .
Then she tell me , she have our son in shelter with stranges and she has signed him off to others as merchandise , I could not believe it , what she has done , asked her and insisted , where is my son and to whom she has given him away , she refused to tell me .
I kept asking her and start searching for my son , I remember walking around the street of Kuala Lumpur and looking to every baby around , if that is my son .
Kept searching asking for help from NGO and everyone I know , sadly not one single person or NGO offered any help at all .
Consult with lawyers , but every lawyers told me , need to find your son first .
Then I decided to do file search of every courts in Kuala Lumpur to find my son , had and still have all her details ( the mother ) took me 432 days searching every court files , until I found my son .
Was happy and sad day in sam time , first because I found my son , even do she refused to tell me , she even told me , she rather take that secret with her to her grave then telling me , have no idea where all the hate come from or was it hate toward her own self , that she projected toward me ?
Was sad day because I couldn’t see my son , even I found him .
My next battle started and was to ask my lawyer to write to their lawyer and find and compromise situation for the best of my son .
My lawyer wrote an elogent letter to them , explaining the whole situation , that I was never agreed nor consented for the adoption with all the proofs black on white , emails exchanged , pictures , banking slips , SMS …,
Took them some times to respond , me in same time , took the intiative to search for them on social media and contacted them directly , from real father to them “me”, sadly they ignored and blocked me and deleted some very contradicting posts in their wall , for example ” what is not your can never be missed ” , that was in her Facebook wall , then she deleted.
When I got the response from , so pathetic is beyond sanity for anyone with heart and mind , there answer , your ” me ” not mentioned in birth certificate , theirfore I don’t exist .
Seriously , where and how was my son conceived ? From Immaculate conception ? Which century are we in ?
My son name been altered few times , I take it in chronological order .
Before he was born , his mother and I agreed to name him
Abraham Matthew
Then his mother behind my back , registered him ( to get me in no man land )
Matthew James L.*
Then the couple who took my son , changed my son name to
Lukas James T. Y. *
* initial of their family name but not my son name .
In my son birth certificate is mentioned that his race is ” Chinese” , without prejudice , I am not Chinese , neither my son .FB_IMG_1507298305196

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2 December 2017 , 10:25 am .
It has been 669 days that my son been born , this is the story 1.
His mother ” Rachel Muriel “has planned and executed with assistance from her parent and others to give our son away 48 hours after my son was born .
Fact she lied to me about his date of birth , she only told me that he was born 24 hours later on 3 Feb 2016 , i run to hospital to see my son and his mother , on that time we where still ( I thought ) in relationship and looking forward to raise our son together .
She had a complete different plan behind my back for our son , once i got to the hospital , after seeing my son first time , was the happiest moment in my life , ask his mother how was she and helped to move from her bed first time after delivering our baby , then she told me , that he was born day before , I was bit suprised but didn’t want to make an issue with it , said to myself in that moment , important she is healthy and our son is , and thought that maybe she wanted to be alone , actually it was premeditated ,done in purpose not to get me present when our son was born , because I will have to be registered as a father in hospital file .
Stayed with her and our son , had a loving exchanges and was looking forward to see my son next day , remember she did not stop talking the whole night and expressing her affection for our son and I , I did the same and I did trust her with my heart and soul , I trusted her with my son life , that he will be with us next day and the rest our life , that we the real parent, will look after him with love , compassion and understanding , he is from her and me .
I love my son and I thought she had the same love for our son , as i do , furthermore she is a mother , she hold him inside her for 9 months , he felt her heart beat , everything he felt from her , a connection with her own baby , sadly she denied him that connection , that affection , the heart beat inside him , was denied and left alone with strangers , that have no connection whatsoever with her or me but more importantly him ” my son ” .
Next day she asked me to meet up with her parent for some talk at hospital , I didnt really wanted to meet them , especially her mother ( evil b***) a big mouth ignorant and materialistic to the bone , love money and above all cheat breakfast , lunch and dinner .
Anyway I respected the mother of my son that time and said OK to meet them , once I got to meet them , her mother started making a seen in front of her daughter in the hospital ( was planed to provoke me ) I didn’t react , left hospital and decided to wait in coffee shop , until they leave and I go back to see my son and his mother .
Because she told me , she will be discharged from the hospital on 5 Feb 2016 .
It is still the 4 Feb 2016 , so I waited outside , until was dark ,around 8 pm decided to go back to see my Son and his mother , to my shock of my life , she was discharged from the hospital late at night , which is not normal at all , I run ask the nurse where is she , they tell me , she was discharged .
Leave hospital start calling her , she switch off her phone , wanted to go to her parent house but remembered that her coward of father and b**of mother told me not to come to their house and if I do they will call the police .
I didn’t want to have more drama , kept calling her , until she answered her phone and that was maybe 1 am ,asked her what happened , where was my son and she became a complete stanger , as if we don’t have a baby at all between us .
I calm myself down and asked her not to do anything stupid , because it is our son and he is not a private property to her alone . still have my trust on her , because it did not cross my mind , that a mother can give her baby away to strangers .
Then she tell me , she have our son in shelter with stranges and she has signed him off to others as merchandise , I could not believe it , what she has done , asked her and insisted , where is my son and to whom she has given him away , she refused to tell me .
I kept asking her and start searching for my son , I remember walking around the street of Kuala Lumpur and looking to every baby around , if that is my son .
Kept searching asking for help from NGO and everyone I know , sadly not one single person or NGO offered any help at all .
Consult with lawyers , but every lawyers told me , need to find your son first .
Then I decided to do file search of every courts in Kuala Lumpur to find my son , had and still have all her details ( the mother ) took me 432 days searching every court files , until I found my son .
Was happy and sad day in sam time , first because I found my son , even do she refused to tell me , she even told me , she rather take that secret with her to her grave then telling me , have no idea where all the hate come from or was it hate toward her own self , that she projected toward me ?
Was sad day because I couldn’t see my son , even I found him .
My next battle started and was to ask my lawyer to write to their lawyer and find and compromise situation for the best of my son .
My lawyer wrote an elogent letter to them , explaining the whole situation , that I was never agreed nor consented for the adoption with all the proofs black on white , emails exchanged , pictures , banking slips , SMS …,
Took them some times to respond , me in same time , took the intiative to search for them on social media and contacted them directly , from real father to them “me”, sadly they ignored and blocked me and deleted some very contradicting posts in their wall , for example ” what is not your can never be missed ” , that was in her Facebook wall , then she deleted.
When I got the response from , so pathetic is beyond sanity for anyone with heart and mind , there answer , your ” me ” not mentioned in birth certificate , theirfore I don’t exist .
Seriously , where and how was my son conceived ? From Immaculate conception ? Which century are we in ?
My son name been altered few times , I take it in chronological order .
Before he was born , his mother and I agreed to name him
Abraham Matthew
Then his mother behind my back , registered him ( to get me in no man land )
Matthew James L.*
Then the couple who took my son , changed my son name to
Lukas James T. Y. *
* initial of their family name but not my son name .
In my son birth certiicate is mentioned that his race is ” Chinese” , without prejudice , I am not Chinese , neither my son .

It’s National Adoption Month- The Right Kinds of Adoptions.

It’s National Adoption Month- The Right Kinds of Adoptions.

Exposing Adoption

It’s November and that means it’s National Adoption Month. We’ll see a lot of “make me vomit” adoption propaganda out there. This is basically the month when the uncredentialed, multibillion dollar adoption industry spends a bulk of its money that its made on convincing young mothers they’re not qualified enough to raise their own kids on rainbows farting out of the butts of unicorns adoption is perfect memes.

So, some might come on here and say there is no right kind of adoption. All adoptions are bad because they seal the original birth certificate. I’m no fan of this, and I admit it needs to stop. A certificate of adoption is one idea in lieu of sealing the obc. Others would say it’s pretty brassy of me to claim what is and isn’t a right kind of adoption. I’m not cocky, I’m confident so let’s get started here, folks.

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